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Young Americans are increasingly embracing offline dating

Monday, Jun 10

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A growing number of US teens and young adults are cutting URLs out of their dating life and switching to IRL.

According to a new report from event management platform Eventbrite, more young Americans are turning to in-person events in order to meet potential romantic partners.

  • Attendance at dating and singles events on Eventbrite has more than doubled over the past two years, including a 49% jump from May 2023 to April 2024.
  • The company says its research found relationship-seeking Gen Z and millennials are moving away from dating apps, and instead see places like coffee shops, bookstores, dance/cooking classes, and painting workshops as ideal spots to meet potential partners.

The trend comes amid increasing complaints of dating app burnout. A recent Forbes Health study found 79% of Gen Z and 80% of millennials report feeling fatigued by dating apps, outpacing all other generations.

  • A separate report, published last October by Axios and Generation Lab, found 79% of college students and other Gen Zers don’t use any dating apps, instead opting for in-person meet-cutes to find romantic partners.

Over on Wall Street, younger Americans’ growing interest in offline dating has coincided with a recent downturn for the two major dating app players: Bumble and Match Group (which owns Tinder, Hinge, Match.com, and other platforms). Bumble’s shares have fallen 34% over the past year, while Match’s have dropped 23%.

Yes, but: Despite growing enthusiasm for meeting romantic partners IRL, dating apps are still one of the most popular ways to find a match. An estimated 10% of all partnered adults met their current significant other online, including 20% of Americans under 30, per the most recent Pew data.

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Sprinkles in favor of online dating

  • Some commentators argue that elaborate screening processes for romantic partners can be inefficient or downright unpleasant, as swiping through dozens of potential partners means that each is compared to more and more people – at a cost of mental effort.
  • Others contend that while apps like Tinder, Hinge, and Bumble are marketed with the promise to increase your chances of finding love, their end result is an American society that’s lonelier – and with fewer romantic partners – than ever before.

Sprinkles against online dating

  • Some commentators argue that while online dating can be demoralizing at times, it also represents an opportunity to enlarge your world and rebuild or create oneself through many different unique experiences.
  • Others contend that many people who have poor experiences with online dating are using the apps in a less-than-ideal fashion, and would see a lot more success and benefit by changing up their profiles and/or approaches to the apps.
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